I have already been speaking with him in the phone for nearly 4 years nonetheless it appears into me and I love him very much, he lives five hours away he says he loves me but not in love with me so what should I do that he is not?

I have already been speaking with him in the phone for nearly 4 years nonetheless it appears into me and I love him very much, he lives five hours away he says he loves me but not in love with me so what should I do that he is not? how can we get him straight straight back he states …